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How to tell a friend you are struggling

You don’t need the perfect words. Here are a few that work.

Telling someone you’re not okay can feel harder than the struggle itself. You might worry about being a burden or not knowing how to explain it.

Start small

“Can I talk to you about something that’s been on my mind?” is enough. You don’t have to share everything at once.

Say what you need

Sometimes you want advice, sometimes you just want someone to listen. Saying which one helps your friend show up the right way.

Maya Laurent

Psychologist, works with 15 to 30 year olds

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